Who is a Single Mother by Choice?

  • Someone who is starting out as, or who will be, the child’s sole parent.
  • Typically someone in their 30’s or 40’s who wants to have a child before it’s too late.
  • Some of us go to doctors for donor insemination or adopt in the US or abroad, and others accidentally became pregnant and knew we would be the child’s sole parent — and discovered we were thrilled.
  • Single motherhood is ideally for someone who feels they have much to give a child and who has the emotional and financial resources to support a family.
  • We believe that single motherhood is a viable option but we are not an advocacy group.
  • We feel the choice to become a parent is a most individual one and is not right for everyone.

Who are our members?

  • They are thinking about becoming Single Mothers by Choice, trying to conceive or adopt, or are already moms.
  • We live all over the US and abroad.
  • Our members have all kinds of careers (teachers, lawyers, businesspeople, doctors, engineers, psychologists, botanists, etc.).
  • Our members span the journey from “Thinkers” to moms of college-aged children (and beyond).
  • We strongly encourage “Thinkers” and “Tryers” to join SMC as we provide unique and hard-to-find support and information for those  going through these particularly stressful and important stages.

Where are our members?

All over! In many major metropolitan areas in the US and Canada, including, among others, Atlanta, Austin, Baltimore, Boston, Chicago, Dallas, DC/Virginia, Houston, Denver, Los Angeles, Minneapolis, New Haven, New York, Philadelphia, Portland, Raleigh/Durham, Rochester, San Francisco, Seattle, Toronto and many more.  We also have members in  countries beyond the USA as well.

If you join Single Mothers by Choice, we will give you access to a list of members and Contact Persons in your area, along with their contact information, so that you can start networking with them. You can also network online in our lively and welcoming 24/7 discussion Forum.

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