• 40th Anniversary Celebration Online Video Access
  • 40th Anniversary Celebration Online Video Access

    Missed our 40th Anniversary Celebration? Single Mothers by Choice had over 850 people registered to attend our 40th Anniversary Celebration. These videos cover both days of the event, over 8 hours of content and include panels and speakers such as:
    • Grown children from SMC families discussing what it was like for them
    • SMC moms discussing connecting with donor sibling families
    • Jane Mattes, SMC founder, speaks about how we talk to our kids about the Daddy question.
    • Fertility treatments, donor insemination, different paths to SMC-hood, a day in the life of an SMC, the donor puzzle, and much more!

    Purchase the full recording now.

    *Members enjoy a $15 discount off this purchase!
    Check on the member forum for your discount code.

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The Original Single Mothers by Choice Book
Written by SMC Founder, Jane Mattes

  • Single Mothers by Choice: A Guidebook for Single Women Who Are Considering or Have Chosen Motherhood

    By Jane Mattes, L.C.S.W., Founder and Director of SMC

    This is the official guidebook of SMC. Jane has been a psychotherapist in private practice in New York City for over thirty years and is a single mother by choice. In this book she addresses the unique issues we face when making the decision about whether or not to become a single mother by choice, as well as the issues that come afterward.

    Partial Contents: Thinking, planning, conceiving, pregnancy, birth, daddy questions, dating, and much more Some sample agreements with a known donor are also included.

Books Our Members Liked

These are some of the books that our members have liked and shared with other members of the SMC community. If you purchase them through these links a percentage of the sale will go to support SMC!