I would love to say that I cried with joy, jumped up and down like crazy and have been elated ever since I found out that I’m pregnant, overcome with excitement and relief. Just reveling in it all. Safely living in a bubble of bliss. I truly wish that has been my experience.
To be completely honest, it took me about a week to believe it, to let the news settle in and comprehend that I am actually pregnant. That it worked this time. It’s happening. I was indeed thrilled at first. You bet I was! And 10 minutes later it was as if it wasn’t real. That it wasn’t happening at all. Like being pregnant was just something my mom and I were talking about. Not really real.
Who could blame me- I had 9 failed IUIs and 1 unsuccessful round of IVF. And a surgery. It’s been rough. … Continue reading
Once I had decided that I was going to try to have a baby on my own it was time to start thinking about who was going to father said child. I considered all the options, some more than others…
- One Night Stand? Totally out of the question for me. Gross/diseases/timing and of course morality.
- Known Donor? I considered this briefly after a ‘close male friend’ offered. It has its pros and works for some people but I didn’t want the danger of ever having to fight for full custody of my child. I also didn’t want to be tied to this person for the rest of my life.
- Sperm Bank? Overwhelming as there are so many. For me this was the most logical way even though it was the most expensive.
Once that decision had been made there were a barrage of decisions behind it. I decided against an … Continue reading